Miliband Urges 'Separate Bedrooms' Approach to US-Europe Ties, Citing Need for European Self-Reliance
Former Foreign Secretary advocates for greater European strategic autonomy while cautioning against severing transatlantic alliance.

HAY-ON-WYE, WALES – Former UK Foreign Secretary David Miliband addressed the Hay literary festival, advocating for a recalibration of the US-Europe relationship, emphasizing the need for greater European self-reliance and strategic autonomy. While advocating for a “separate bedrooms” approach, Miliband cautioned against a complete “divorce” from the United States, highlighting the importance of maintaining a strong transatlantic alliance.
Miliband, who now heads the International Rescue Committee, emphasized the need for Europe to develop its own capacity in areas such as defense and the economy. His remarks come amid growing concerns about the United States’ commitment to traditional alliances and the rise of global competitors such as China. “You can see the argument that strategic autonomy for Europe means divorce from the United States. I really counsel the dangers of that,” he stated.
His call for “separate bedrooms” suggests that Europe should take greater responsibility for its own security and economic prosperity, reducing its dependence on the United States. This aligns with conservative principles of self-reliance and fiscal responsibility.
Miliband also quipped that Europe needed “separate bank accounts,” emphasizing the need for economic independence and competitiveness. He acknowledged the challenges this presents, particularly in areas such as defense procurement. He further underscored the importance of Europe investing in innovation and technology, particularly in the AI space, to ensure its digital sovereignty.
However, Miliband cautioned against completely severing ties with the US, recognizing the importance of maintaining a strong alliance to address shared threats and challenges. He highlighted the importance of transatlantic cooperation in areas such as counterterrorism and cybersecurity.
During the panel discussion, writer and lawyer Philippe Sands observed that the UK-US relationship is “one-way,” noting the UK’s dependence on the US. Sands also said the UK was “far more dependent” on the US, adding, “What we’ve learned in the last couple of years is that it’s time to think through what we need.” Sands advocated for closer ties with Europe, highlighting the importance of the UK’s relationship with France. This acknowledgement of the UK's European ties reflects a broader understanding of the importance of international partnerships in navigating complex global challenges.

